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Saturday, August 23, 2008

No more sex

What
arrrrghhhhhh

a friend of mine has already 2 kids. And we were joking around about sex etc you know what men always talk about. If not sex than it is car or job.
So he told me the last time he has sex (complete with date and time) about couple of years ago. I was like "What"?
Well first never guessed that he will be so honest about this and never waited the statement like that.
Guess really priority does change, if you have family and kids. Things are different. The way you express your love, etc different. Some people even don't care anymore about their apppearance as before.
One of my other friends, so these ones are belonging to one family, i.e. husband and wife. They are always joking about me, that I am crazy about sport etc. For your information, they are really big compared to me. Can imagine like if my upper thigh like the size of the arm of blabla. They said well we are already happily married we don't need to hunt for a partner anymore. So we don't need to be like you. Blablablabla.
Although I don't agree what they said, well basically its their life. I do respect their way. But getting married doesn't mean to be laid back even more. This is not correct at all. Your body is to be taken care for. It is not only belonging to you but also to God and your family. I dont want to be look ugly for my partner after marriage. Just because Well I already married.......

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

What???...

This is so funny, you know. Menurut gue, orang cenderung membelokkan alasan kearah itu, bahwa mereka tidak perlu mrasa harus menjaga penampilan karena mereka sudah menikah.

Pemikiran yang salah menurut gue, karena justru ketika kita sudha menikah, ada banyak alasan yang bisa kita pakai untuk berolahraga. Menjalin kebersamaan misalnya. Berolahraga brsama selain sehat dan tubuh jadi bugar, juga mendekatkan satu sama lain.

Lagipula, bentuk tubuh menentukan kualitas hidup seseorang, trmasuk what they eat, what they do, semua deh... Kalo lingkar pinggang laki2 melebihi 110, ini sangat berbahaya, demikian juga wanita jika lingkar pinggangnya melebihi 90cm, berarti lemak yang menyelubungi organ2 dalam tubuh sudah sangat padat, dan itu tidak baik untuk metabolisme tubuh... bisa merusak kerja organ2 dalam tubuh dan bisa menyebabkan penyakit degenerative.

Kalo kita sakit, khan keluarga kita juga yang repot... (jadi ingat mama-papaku lagi dehhh)

Sooo... we do exercise, to make our self healthy and stronger, We did it not because we still need to find partner for our life, but We do exercise because we care on what GOD has given to us, A healthy body.

Lagian olahraga itu bikin kita segar bukan..??? Healthy inside, fresh outside... Kalo udah begitu, mana brani mata pasangan "belanja" lagi diluaran... (tapi ada juga sih laki2 yang masih juga matanya "belanja" even istrinya has done her best... well, shits happened, isn't it... hehehe...)

halahh.. CCTT.. :)

btw, I have a new blog about running a healthy living

please visit:

http://14daystomydday.dagdigdug.com/about

And yes, you right. Our body is not ours only, but also belong to our family... And GOD.

regards,

Silly

Anonymous said...

btw... CCTT means Curhat Colongan Tingkat Tinggi.. :D

silly